Of course, I realize every man is unique, but these are just some features that I notice a lot. And they don’t want to feel obligated to do anything!
Just like divorced women, divorced men are wounded. They want to be loved, they want to be treated with kindness, they want to feel appreciated, and they want to feel like they are still capable of being in a healthy relationship. Some divorced men want to fall in love right away, and some want to take their time.
DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.But much of this too is to avoid the complex array of losses and challenges divorce presents a man.Many of these losses though, are a result men’s typical, if not default, role within marriage of being the financial provider. However the first 6 months there were a lot more hurdles to overcome, which led to the relationship breaking down. Yes, I knew that he was divorced and had two children, but just knowing that he did want kids was to overcome the first hurdle of dating him.