MISTAKE #4: Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early With Him Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they “feel” too early on. They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something more serious. Men generally communicate with sarcasm, humor, cockyness and other “indirect” displays of status.
As a result, they often don't understand non-verbal communication as well as women. Doing these things actually works to subtly, at an subconscious level, lower your social status with a man, which has EVERYTHING to do with how he sees you as a woman. From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things.And yet we still have an awful habit of doing just that, only to fill air in their already swelling egos.Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 10 Mistakes Women Make With Men (27106 Views) The 10 Mistakes Nigerian Men Must Not Do When In Relationship With Their Woman / The Ten Biggest Mistakes Women Make In A Relationship. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much. But they did..the while hoping that I would somehow change. The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the “potential” they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them.When a guy doesn’t confirm the date, he is – for all intents and purposes – showing you that he really doesn’t care about the date. A confident guy will not tolerate it too long and you will find yourself alone again. A guy’s character is not based on the amount of money he makes. He will question why you are so into him so early on in the date. If you are positive that it isn’t right, don’t avoid him. If he did care, he would confirm the date and tell you that he was looking forward to seeing you. Do anything except wait by the phone to see if he calls. He might have forgotten the date or made other plans. However, if you are unavoidably late, call him to let him know you are running late. Asking a guy for his W2 is basically asking the guy never to call you again. Instead, feel free to tell him you had a nice time when the date ends. Don’t allow him to call several times and leave messages hoping he will go away or stop calling. Call him back, but soon into the conversation say, “I had a nice time, but I just don’t think we are right for each other.” The truth will hurt, but it’s the way it must be done.